Showing posts with label uab. Show all posts
Showing posts with label uab. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

First Piece on I Am The F-Bomb!

This is my first contributing piece on I Am The F-Bomb, a Birmingham-based feminist blog that features many amazing women writers who I'm honored to be featured with!

My post is called "Rape Culture at UAB." It highlights the shortcomings, myths, and resources surrounding sexual assault on campus, specifically at my alma mater, the University of Alabama at Birmingham. It also features a short documentary by two amazing film students and a lot of facts and links.

Excerpt:


Does UAB have a rape culture problem? In short, yes. I would wager that very campus does. Download the Yik Yak app or go to a frat party and you’ll hear a plethora of rape jokes and misogynistic statements being tossed around nonchalantly, adding to the victim blaming and trivialization of sexual assault and inevitably encourages women to not report their attack.

Rape culture at UAB becomes a huge problem when its own police force perpetuates it. My first encounter with the UAB Police Department was a female officer at an on-campus Take Back The Night event for SURVIVORS to share their stories, jumping up and scolding young women for “walking around alone at night” and “wearing headphones” when walking on campus. Additionally, on the UABPD’s website, there is a page titled, “Date Rape”  with a lot of problematic wording on it that makes my skin crawl.


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Excuse me, but where is the section for men? Did I miss the part where the UABPD told men, “Hey, if you see a girl passed out on the couch, she legally cannot consent to sex!” or “Just because you take a girl out, even if she kisses you, or flirts with you, even if she’s had sex with you or anyone else a billion times before, does not mean that sex with her should be owed or expected.”

I think that campus safety tips are important, but the UABPD does not realize that women have these cautious behaviors engrained in our every move due to a society that not only ignores, but often condones sexual assault. It is more important to provide useful information instead of judgmental wording.


Click here to read more:
http://www.iamthefbomb.com/rape-culture-at-uab/

Thursday, October 30, 2014

The Dalai Lama in Birmingham!

Hunter and I had the amazing opportunity to hear the 14th Dalai Lama speak in Birmingham, at Regions Field for "An Afternoon with His Holiness" during Human Rights Week.
Here, he is seen with Mayor William Bell.

It was a wonderfully enlightening and moving speech on celebrating oneness, peace, and all the ways that we, as humans, are similar, instead of feuding over our differences.
It was so refreshing to hear the Dalai Lama laugh and joke around throughout his presentation, and it was a day that I'll never forget.

The Birmingham monks creating a beautiful mandala in honor of the Dalai Lama's visit

The "Jolly" Lama outside of Good People Brewing Company

The Dalai Lama also spoke at the University of Alabama at Birmingham (as seen above with his UAB visor, haha), the Alabama Theatre, and 16th Street Baptist Church (pictured below) during his visit.

I'm sorry, please forgive me, but I couldn't resist.
Mayor Bell with Dalai Lama, Mayor Bell with actual llama.
Plus, I find it extremely amusing that the bottom photo is on Mayor Bell's Wikipedia page.

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

I'm Really Bad at Titles, You Could Say I've Never Earned a Title in It (save with a pun)

Pita Stop with my cousin and mama for her birthday!

October Birchbox:
Vasanti BrightenUp! exfoliating cleanser 
Tocca green tea and lemon hand cream
Model CO Power Lashe Longwear black mascara
SAGE + fasten Onward rollerball perfume
and another Beauty Protector Protect & Detangle spray

Attended my first ever UAB football game (as an alum, oops)

Sweet Melvin :)

Wore my new converse for the birmingham ghost walk!
I didn't get any photos, but I encourage everyone to go.

It's $15 and is led every night during October.
For more information, go to http://www.bhamhistory.com/